have been attending freshman teambuilding camp facilitators trg for the past two days and the the one thing tat struck mi the deepest is this: discover power and fulfilment as you keep your focus on what you can control instead of wasting time resenting, complaining, wishing and blaming. in simple terms it means tat if u were to fall, pick urself up and walk again instead of sitting there and crying over the fall.

in life ppl do make mistakes...and wat most ppl do is tat they whud choose to resent about it knowing veri clearli tat there is nothing they can do at this juncture to prevent watever tat has alr happened from happening. ppl choose not to focus on the things tat they can control...instead they choose to subconsciousli get abosorbed by their failures...hence leading to inefficiency as well as negative emotions. being emotional by nature of men doesn't help in this area as well...even for myself i dun deny i do fall into this trap unknowingly at times as well.

i made a mistake. a mistake tat whud probably cause many things in my life to change. but all in all i feel tat in life u cannot undo watever tat has alr been done...no one noes how much consideration and thought i went thru in my head before making the decision...since i committed the mistake clearly aware of the consequences...i'm noe exactly wat i'm putting at risk. call mi stupid...but deep down inside i noe tat i whud definitely regret it even more if i decided otherwise. i made a choice. i stick to it. period.

dsi: 6/2/3

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